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My Summer of Reinvention & Transformation

My Summer of Reinvention & Transformation

Hey there, friends! It’s been a while since I’ve blogged. And what huge changes my life has been experiencing this summer. You may have noticed and heard some things, I’ve shared some with you already. I’ve been in reinvention mode this summer, allowing life to unfold, practicing surrender, learning […]

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Desperately Seeking Passion

Desperately Seeking Passion

“I just want to feel passion… I don’t think I’ve ever felt it.” She said, looking at me with pleading eyes. At that moment, I wished I had “passion wand” I could wave over my coaching client to instantly imbibe her with the ability to feel the […]

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Have you forgotten? You are a wild one.

  “Underneath it all, we are wild and we know it.” – Reggie Ray, Buddhist scholar From the time you were a little child they’ve been trying to tame you. They told you how to sit, they told you how to behave. They told you what nice […]

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A Real Pain in the Ass

A Real Pain in the Ass

I woke up this Tuesday morning, stepped out of bed, and within my first couple steps, I was staggering in breath-taking pain. WTF. Sharp, intense, shooting up my back and down my leg, and centralized in my ass, right side, this pain has made a rude and […]

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You are worth the effort.

You are worth the effort.

It happens every year. Millions of us start the year with determination and resolve… This is The Year. I will eat healthier. I will exercise more. I will create new habits to work toward my dreams… And then, one by one, by February, almost all resolutions have been […]

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You will never be free, if you don’t do this.

You will never be free, if you don't do this.

I think its pretty safe to say, we all enjoy freedom. We all want to feel free. Feeling imprisoned, trapped, meh, not really our thing. I know for me, freedom has been a number one value, for many, many years. My top Core Desired Feeling is freedom. […]

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The Truth About Changing

The Truth About Changing

“Nothing happens, and nothing happens, and then everything happens.” – Fay Weldon There’s a recent shifting, a new understanding in me that has basically turned my world on its head. It’s challenged everything I thought about life, about change, about habits and healing. It has turned my business beliefs upside […]

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What These Women Have Taught Me

What These Women Have Taught Me

I am more in love with my work than I have ever been. One of the most beautiful parts of my work and my life is The Burlesque Experience. Running now for five and a half years and 22 seasons, around 230 women have come through this program, […]

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Shock Yourself: Loosen the Labels that Bind You

Shock Yourself: Loosen the Labels that Bind You

“I am not the type to let people in.” “I am the least domesticated person you’ll ever meet.” “I can’t save money.” “I always let fear stop me from what I want.” “I hate when attention is on me.” “I’m not ever putting myself in a vulnerable […]

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Hot & Holy: Sex, Soul and the “Sacred Slut”

Hot & Holy: Sex, Soul and the "Sacred Slut"

We were divinely designed for pleasure. We are born sexual. We are wired for intensity. We are wild, beastly, messy, sticky, erotic creatures. We burn deeply with desires, some we would never dream of naming. Yet through a hundred thousand messages, religion, lies, experiences and for many […]

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