receiving

Save some you for you.

Save some you for you.

Somewhere along the line, we learned that putting ourselves first was bad. Somewhere along the line, we began believing that the needs and wants of others without regard of our own. Somewhere along the line, we gave and we gave and we gave, until one day, we […]

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Lower the Drawbridge, C’Mon!

Lower the Drawbridge, C’Mon!

“The refusal to ask for help is a kind of sickness in itself. The refusal to ask for help is not rugged individualism but ragged individualism and it is a function of fear. Not that there’s nothing to fear. Asking for help is a formidable art and […]

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Getting the Support You Need

As an occasional offering, I invite you to write with your questions or topic suggestions. I will answer all either privately or in this space. It’s my intention that my words will bring hope and new clarity. Here’s one… Dear Lisa, I could use some perspective on […]

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Giver, I dare you to recieve.

Giver, I dare you to recieve.

I’m getting better with this, but it still happens now and then, that cringing, awkward feeling when I’m supposed to receive… a gift, a compliment, support, praise. Instead of basking on the loving receiving end of the give and receive cycle, I feel uncomfortable. Eager to diffuse […]

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