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Somewhere Between

Somewhere Between

A couple of months ago, I had a dream. In the dream, I was playing the keyboard and making music and experiencing great pleasure. In real life, I didn’t play any instruments. And I woke up with a longing. It wasn’t the first time I’ve longed to […]

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A Real Pain in the Ass

A Real Pain in the Ass

I woke up this Tuesday morning, stepped out of bed, and within my first couple steps, I was staggering in breath-taking pain. WTF. Sharp, intense, shooting up my back and down my leg, and centralized in my ass, right side, this pain has made a rude and […]

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The Truth About Changing

The Truth About Changing

“Nothing happens, and nothing happens, and then everything happens.” – Fay Weldon There’s a recent shifting, a new understanding in me that has basically turned my world on its head. It’s challenged everything I thought about life, about change, about habits and healing. It has turned my business beliefs upside […]

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I’ve made a huge decision.

I've made a huge decision.

The word “decide” means, in its barest essence, “to kill.” Think about it: Matricide. Genocide. Suicide. Homocide. In order to choose the powerful decisions that will propel our lives, something else has to die. I’ve made a huge decision, and I want to tell you about it. But […]

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Buzzing and Blooming, Flowers, Bees & Me

Buzzing and Blooming, Flowers, Bees & Me

Somewhere, at some point recently I began entertaining the sweet notion of attraction rather than attainment, magnetism over motion. I decided I wanted to be the flower, and not the bee. I’ve spent most of my working life being a bee. Buzzing, buzzing from flower to flower, […]

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Because I am Worth It. And So Are You.

Because I am Worth It. And So Are You.

How do you know when it’s time to take a break? The Universe, in its divine wisdom and wicked sense of humor, has many curious ways of leading me to a resting place. Some more dramatic than others. Last year, around this time, a chronic pain situation […]

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Oops, I did it again.

Oops, I did it again.

You can imagine my delight, when I started feeling better at the end of February. After months of inactivity and a dramatically different life because of a chronic pain situation,  I’ve been like a kid in a candy shop. I had a procedure that took a great […]

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When you’re just not feeling it…

When you're just not feeling it...

I was sore. I was tired. I was having a bad hair day. I was not feeling it. But in 90 minutes, I had to teach an “Unleash Your Inner Bombshell” burlesque intro workshop to a room full of women. Helping women tap into their inner sexy, […]

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Screw the Guru

Screw the Guru

  “Life always gives us exactly the teacher we need. Watch for the guru.” Let’s call a spade a spade, here. Sometimes, life just sucks. Sometimes pain takes over and ruins everything. Sometimes shitty things happen. Sometimes watching for the guru feels impossible. Sometimes, screw the guru. […]

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Everything is an Invitation

Everything is an Invitation

Some days are louder than others. Some days are a cacophony of distractions, voices, chatter, noise. The feeling of being pulled in too many directions is one of my least favorite feelings. Yet, if everything is an invitation, which I believe it is, then this feeling… even […]

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